In four weeks from today, you'll be able to hold a copy of my next book, Uncompete  in your hands. Or your e-reader or in your ears.   I'm excited, of course. AND, more honestly, I'm struggling to find a way to gear up for the book launch when there's so much grief and confusion everywhere. I know this book will help us navigate some of the heaviness we're feeling. Yet, how do I do this?   I'm learning....   To achieve my dreams, the next four weeks require me to do two thing

With Amy Gallo, former co-host of the Women At Work podcast. This was the first time we met in person (October 2022), though thanks to...

I know I’m not alone in feeling absolutely devastated. Like most, I don’t know how to process, deal, make sense, feel like I can help....

It’s a tough season for many of us. While my identities and life circumstances protect me from some challenges, others I am feeling...

When the world feels heavy (and any type of way, if I'm honest!), I turn to books.   Stories have always offered me hope, connection, and...

I recently had a bittersweet conversation with my eight-year-old son, V.   I was explaining to him that in some cultures (including some...

I don't have good words to express how I feel right now–horror, devastation, fear.   Seeing DEI hostility writ large has made it so much...

For my own self-care, I have a plan for the inauguration of America’s next president on January 20. I’ll be taking the day off work to...

I never tell anyone about my wild, pie-in-the-sky, moonshot dreams.   I don’t write them out. I don’t speak them out. There are times...

Well, the worst happened. I’ve despaired knowing that the U.S.–in line with re-emerging trends of xenophobia and nationalism around the...

Hello friend, I’ve been slow to write here for a number of reasons:   I’ve finally pressed "SEND" on V3 of my next book’s manuscript,...

You’ve probably wondered who Ruchika T. Malhotra is, and if you’ve been signed up to some spammy email list before realizing that it IS a...

When you’re a person from a historically marginalized group, being overlooked or underestimated is a frustratingly regular occurrence.  ...

There are some stories that don’t quite ever leave your mind or your heart.   For me, a recent read that's left that mark on me is...

I have a terrible poker face. Recently, my husband, seven-year-old son, and I started playing poker as a post-dinner family activity....

Happy spring, dear friend! I love this time of year. It reminds us not only of the possibility of growth, but also of what it takes to...